I know women are experts when it comes to sensitivity. Women are usually sensitive to the needs of other people and somebody tells them about a problem, they will be so compassionate to help and feel sorry for that particular person.
The men, on the other hand, is not that sensitive in nature. I have got a lot more I that I need to learn when it comes to sensitivity to the needs of other people. This is why, men and women often quarrel in a relationship and women usually complain that men are not being sensitive.
Being sensitive to other people’s needs is all about love and sincerity. How much you love a person will determine how sensitive you will be towards him or her. You will be more sensitive to your own child comparing to a stranger who you do not know on the street.
A mature person, somehow is a person who is sensitve to people. He places other people’s needs above his needs and often this is the person who attracts long term, solid and close relationships with others.
My friend who is a guy, is very sensitive to other people’s needs. When people throws their complains and struggles to him, he simply has the heart to listen to them and put himself in the shoes of others.
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There are 3 things a woman values. There are love, beauty and relationship.
Love
To a woman, love is extremely important. I was asking a lady friend of mine if she is still interested in good looking guys at her age. She told me no and she want a guy to pampers and cares about her.
I think it truly applies to a lot more couples out there I have seen. Sometimes I wonder why a pretty lady would choose a guy that is not good looking.
Well, the word good looking is very subjective. I mean, they just don’t match. In the end, I understand. Women are very different from guys. They want to be loved whereas men are usually visual animals.
That is why, if you want a healthy relationship or marriage, our dear brothers, just love your respective partners.
Beauty
Men are like beasts, what beauty do men have for the women? It is the beauty of a relationship or marriage. If you are a man who comes out with surprises for your wife from time to time, the chances are, she will feel so appreciated and know deep in her heart, she is so loved.
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Do you know what a man values the most? If you have a boyfriend or a husband, what do you think they value?
There are 3 main things a man values:-
1. Dominion
Men are created in such a way they want to have dominion over certain things. They want to have authority so that they can rule and take the lead to get things done.
It does not matter if it’s in a family, business, company or discussion group. They tend to want to have dominion over these things.
I personally like to do most of the things by myself. Unless I really do not enjoy doing it, I will pass it to somebody else.
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In my previous post, I shared that wives are supposed to submit to their respective husbands. Yes, submit to him.
In this post, I will be sharing the role of a husband in the family. I do not have a set of rules that teach you how to be a good husband.
If you want to be a good husband, there is only one thing you need to do. Yes, just one. As simple as that.
Love your wife! 
Remember who was the one who asked her to marry you? It was you and you made the choice to marry her long time ago. So, you don’t tell me you only love her that particular moment, do you?
I always wonder, what is the secret to love my wife for the rest of my life. It is easy to love her when we first started, but as we start to get older, how on earth are we supposed to maintain this marriage of a lifetime?
(I don’t have a wife yet, but I can see how it is like. Could be wrong though. Maybe I’ll know when it is my time to get married, huh.)
This is what I learned on how to maintain a marriage of a lifetime.
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What is the role of a wife?
If I ask this question to a group of ladies, I would probably get hundreds of different answers.
In my previous post, I shared about my cousin’s family, whose mother plays the role as an encourager in the family, even though the father is a very demanding person.
So the role of a wife in a marriage is to submit to your own husband.
“What? No way!”, you might say.
Please read on.
In fact, this is the foundational basis of every healthy relationship in a marriage.
What comes to your mind when I said the word ’submit’ to your husband?
To submit, it does not mean being inferior to your husband. To submit is to serve the person you love and to bless him with your life.
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Does the title sound familiar? It is a best selling book written by John Gray about the difference between men and women.
I think he did a very good job in using the title like that because it really tells how men and women are different.
So if you are a in a relationship or marriage, don’t be surprise that your partner or the other half of yours does not think like the way you do. It is perfectly normal.
You need to understand this in order to have a healthy relationship or marriage.
Why do you think men usually squeeze the toothpaste right at the middle and women squeeze from the bottom when they start to live together?
It is because both men and women have very different roles and responsibilities.
We are designed in such a way by our Creator to compliment and complete us, even with flaws and shortcomings.
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Hmm.. I thought the pursuit of excellence can be applied in all the areas of our lives. Since I have been learning about relationship lately, I would really want to share with you about relationship excellence.
In the next coming few days, I will be sharing a lot about relationship. I don’t know how long it will last and it might have some other personal development posts in between.
However, I’ve created a category in relationship excellence so that you can always come back and check for more.
Hope you will have great fun and most importantly, do come back for more!
