One of the habits that make the successful individuals so different from others is their ability to master their feelings. Over the time, I’ve learned to control my feelings and I still have a long way to go.
Our ability to make decisions are based on our emotions most of the time. Even Anthony Robbins said that people do things based on emotions. That is why, he called himself a ‘Why Guy’. He ‘whys’ you do what you do.
So why do you do what you do? I mean if you are a doctor, why are you a doctor? If you are a businessman, and why are you a businessman?
The reason behind is probably at some point of your lifetime, you made a decision to become a doctor or a businessman and why? It is because you are emotionally driven by some values, thoughts, exposures or some other factors that affected you to make such a decision to become a doctor or a business man.
Don’t worry if you do not know what I’m talking about. I’m only trying to make the post looks longer. The real deal only comes now.
Successful individuals live by their commitment and not their emotions.
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If you are given another $1,000,000 dollars, do you think it will solve a lot of problems? Yes it will but only for temporary.
If you want a long term solution for wealth creation, the secret lies not in the amount of money you make. It is actually the ability to manage your finances. 
My leader told me once that it is this special ability that determines whether a person lives in a high end condominium or a low cost flat apartment.
I am not earning a lot of money just yet but I have seen people who is earning more than much will come to me and ask me to borrow him some money.
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I want to give you a relevation in life. You might need to take a pen, write this down and put this on the wall in front of your table. It is this.
Each of us has 24 hours a day.
Yes, 24 hours. Whether you are a toilet cleaner or a CEO of a listed company, you have 24 hours a day. Donald Trump, Bill Gates, Warren Buffet and my favourite motivational speaker, Adam Khoo has 24 hours a day.
How do you think they manage to do so many great things within 24 hours a day, while some of us complain that we do not have time? 
There are 3 ways you can do the same if you follow act upon these principles.
1. Analyse Your Lifestyle
Everyone lives differently and only you, yourself know what kind of lifestyle that suits you best. Also, each people manage their time differently based on the nature of their lifestyle.
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If you have one million dollar, it will be written in such a way:-
1,000,000. Right?
In case you don’t know, the ‘1′ that has the right to stand at the front represents your health.
It simply means, even if you have a million dollar in your bank account but you do not have good health, you are truly back to nothing.
In fact, it is not the ability to make a million that comes in as the top priority but the ability to maintain your health.
Imagine that now you are on your ways to climb Mount Everest with a group of people. Once you have reached the top, everyone is enjoying the amazing sceneries and shouting for joy.
However, because of your illness, you are not able to enjoy it. So watch your health.
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Standing at a little size of 140cm, he made a point to conquer the negative and critical voice of saying ‘You cannot’, ‘You’re too short’, or ‘Everyone will look down on you’.
Not only that Eric fought against all odds to go to school but he graduated from a carpentry course. I am so touched by his story and so inspired by what he said.
“I don’t expect the environment to be changed to suit me, but I change to adapt to the environment.” - Eric Teng
Instead of complaining that he was born like that, he changed his mindset to suit the environment instead and he made it possible to shut the critical voices.
So Eric, if you ever dropped by my blog, please leave me a comment! Truly inspired by your story.
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In my last post, I talked about how you can discover your success with self control and I thought, I would not want to just stop this topic right there.
In the coming 5 days, I will bring you the insights of how successful individuals express their self control.
There are 5 ways and I will share one way each day so that you can have a better idea of how these people manage their own lives.
So stay stuned and do come back and visit my blog for the best kept secrets in being an excellent person!
I want to share with you guys about success through self control. The word ‘Self Control’ is a big word and obviously, not many people are masters when it comes to self control, including myself of course.
However, the universal principle remains the same - it is how you control yourself that determines how successful you will be.
You may have heard people saying to you that you cannot do it, you are not amount to anything, success may be for others but just not right for you or hey, wake up man, it’s just too difficult.
Are these true? Of course not!
The secret lies in how you control yourself. Often, we are driven by two things. It is either pleasure or pain. You need to know this fact - people learn better through pain.
Have you been over eating? Are you getting signs that your body health is collapsing? Or, have you been slacking around and waiting for the feel motivated before you want to study or do your work?
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Have you heard of Adam Khoo’s Patterns of Excellence progam? Be it the audio program or the bootcamp in Singapore.
Adam Khoo and Stuart Tan have made their ways to become the top communicators in Singapore is simply by using the techniques and power of Neuro Linguistic Programming - NLP.
Both of them are the certified and licensed NLP trainers. Those who have attended their bootcamp or bought the audio programs have greatly been impacted and transformed by the power of it.
So how does it work? NLP simply teaches you to take control of your mind and emotions, rather that having them controlling you. I, myself, have greatly benefited from this audio program alone.
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Do you know the power of having big dreams in your life? You might not be there yet but if you have the desire and big dreams to be there, you will.
Even if you do not achieve the goal or big dream you have said to yourself, the results of your achievement will definitely be better than what you are doing now.
A few days ago, I met 3 siblings and they are a truly great example of dreaming big. They are only in their 20s and they have dreams that most of the experienced working adults dare not dream of.
They just couldn’t stop telling me about their plan and I am so touched by their spirit. I truly believe with their determination and the spirit of not giving up, they will definitely be there.
The following are the powers of dreaming big.
1. It Excites You
Believe it or not, most of the people do not take action is simply because they do not have anything or reason that excites them. Setting high goals and dreaming big will eventually excite you.
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The statement I am willing to pay the price is far easier said that done. Truly, it is easy for someone to say, “I’m willing to pay the price”, or “I’ll do whatever it takes to get there” - of course, provided it is within the legal boundaries.
You know, in order to succeed in life, you simply cannot afford to leave out the following areas:-
1. Demand on your heart
When you have the desire to succeed in life, it often comes from your heart. I do know some people, they have other factors wanting to succeed in life.
I know a 22-year-old young Internet marketer, who does very well in Internet marketing. He is earning 5 figure income already - sometimes even in US dollars.
The reason why he was so successful is because he had this desire to provide for the family. Whenever he thought of his mum, he will eventually work harder and find more ways to generate more income from the Internet.
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